Welcome to The Fussy Baby Site, the only site dedicated to supporting parents of fussy, colicky and high need babies and kids. If your baby frequently fusses or cries, it’s easy to feel like you’re the only one who doesn’t have an ‘easy baby’.
My goal is to help you realize you’re not doing anything wrong, and that there’s nothing ‘wrong’ with your child! Visit my blog to read personal stories of fussy and high need babies, and helpful tips to not only survive but to THRIVE with your high need child!
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Dear Guys, It's not just her. We're all like that. Mommies are biologically wired to respond to our babies' needs. Crying is the only way they have to communicate with us, and when they cry, we don't just hear it; we FEEL it. Like, deep in our soul, pulling at our hearts feel it. Don't [...]
I've heard several people refer to "the high needs puzzle", and it's a term I'm growing to use and love more and more. Too often, we're told that there is one, singular reason why our baby or toddler is fussy or high need. Some of the suggested reasons are that: You're spoiling your baby [...]
My story starts before my little girl was born. Man, she was a character even in my belly. She was ALWAYS moving in there! And boy, did she give my ribs and bladder a work out; being so petite (she was born 6lbs 6ozs pretty much right on time) she had neverending room to play. The further [...]
By Diana Julian, certified child sleep consultant and owner of Big Sky Lullaby Sleep Consulting If you are a parent of a high need child, I don’t have to tell you that when your child is tired their challenging temperament becomes even more challenging. This is because they are more sensitive t[...]
“It's not walking away when a mirror is held up in front of you and you see how much you are ruled by the expectations of society instead of what your desires are and the needs of your family.” A few months into my parenting journey, this quote from Mayim Bialik really hit home for me. My dau[...]
One of the tricky parts of running this site is constantly trying not to scare new parents into thinking their colicky baby is going to turn into a 'high need' baby! If you're new to the all day/all night crying, screaming, fussing, non-sleeping scene, all the terms you'll read on this site ([...]
Do you ever wonder if you caused your baby's fussiness or high need behaviours? If so, you're not alone. When you see other people's babies sitting contentedly in the stroller, or sleeping through the night, or just generally being a joy to have around, it's hard not to feel like you're doing someth[...]
Someone on our Facebook group shared this today with the caption: Oh Joy to the World! :) I couldn't wait to share it with you. This is perhaps the most popular product used around these parts for helping fussy babies sleep. Only problem is, until now, you had to sit next to it and rock it with y[...]
You may find yourself a bit perplexed at some of the terminology you've seen used throughout this site; terms like colic, high need (high needs) and spirited. There are many possible situations or triggers that may have brought you here, but one thing is fairly certain: your baby or child is fussier[...]
God started preparing me for my son ten years ago when I landed in a job working at the WIC (women, infant, and child) program as a nutritionist and they sent me for training to become certified as lactation consulted. I spent five years learning about people’s families and seeing first hand [...]