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Category: General Parenting

Do High Need Babies Turn into High Need Kids?

Do High Need Babies Turn into High Need Kids?

[ 2 ] 2:07 pm |

  Wouldn’t it be nice to know whether your spirited, high need or ‘difficult’ baby will outgrow this behaviour later in life? Well one of our moms recently passed on this article to me, and I know many of you will appreciate it. Click here to read Difficult Babies Can Turn into Super Kids. Keep [...]

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Sometimes It’s About the Less-Bad Option

Sometimes It’s About the Less-Bad Option

[ 13 ] 10:07 am |

I keep trying to write this post, and keep deleting it. In fact, I started to write this post over a year ago. This time I’m determined to actually publish it! Here’s why: This post is about….sleep training (gasp!). People are so incredibly polarized on this issue, and I can completely understand why. I get [...]

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A Conversation on Perinatal Imprinting

A Conversation on Perinatal Imprinting

[ 1 ] 5:55 pm |

Aside from the medical and developmental scales we use to understand babies, there is a language we can learn that lets us decode exactly what babies are telling us. They have a stealth language that is designed to draw us in so that we listen very closely to what words and thoughts fail to do. [...]

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When Do High Need Babies Get Easier?

When Do High Need Babies Get Easier?

[ 28 ] 10:27 am |

Unfortunately there’s no ‘one size fits all’ answer to this question, but there are some definite patterns. I know when your baby is up yet again partying at 3am, or your toddler is having his 3rd (or 5th, or 10th) tantrum of the day, you need some good news to hold onto. So I thought [...]

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4 Bits of Advice for Parents of High Need Babies

4 Bits of Advice for Parents of High Need Babies

[ 7 ] 11:10 am |

Baby books and websites will often give you tips for making life with your baby easier and less stressful. These tips may include: ‘Get your baby into a good routine as early as possible’, ‘Put your baby to bed drowsy but not asleep’, ‘If your baby is fussy, it’s probably because of gas’, and ‘Be [...]

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Resolutions Are For Children

Resolutions Are For Children

[ 0 ] 9:45 am |

Let’s be honest. New Year’s Resolutions are kind of a joke. A sad joke. They are a flash in the pan of hopefulness. Sure….2012 added fifteen pounds, nearly cleaned out the savings and was as romantic as a Quentin Tarantino movie. But this year will be different. I’m RESOLVED that it will be different. (And [...]

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Shattering the Good Mom Myth

Shattering the Good Mom Myth

[ 1 ] 10:44 am |

Ever see this sign? Every time I see it, I have to resist the temptation to find a can of spray paint. According to that quote every time my floors are clean and my kids aren’t happy, I’m a bad mom. Hmmmm…. “Yes, you have to finish your broccoli.” “But that makes me unhappy!” “Well… [...]

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Do You Have a Village?

Do You Have a Village?

[ 1 ] 12:14 pm |

Do you have a village? Is it your your mother, your sister, your moms group, your neighbor? Or maybe your best friend? I am a few years removed now from my fussy and colicky newborns. But I am never removed from the day to day challenges that befall every family. Most days, support is great [...]

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He’s My Child, No Matter What

He’s My Child, No Matter What

[ 3 ] 9:23 am |

When your child is different than other kids, than 80% of the babies born, it can be hard not to worry. What have I worried about? Oh just a few things….like: Everything I ate during pregnancy must have caused some kind of irreparable damage to his system He must really have hydrocephalus, fluid in his [...]

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When Cuddles Won’t Cure Your Baby

When Cuddles Won’t Cure Your Baby

[ 5 ] 5:25 pm |

Before I had kids, I had a very vivid picture of what I assumed parenting a newborn would look like. In the mornings I would get my baby out of her crib, and bring her into my bed to cuddle. After a few minutes of cuddling (she’d be cooing the whole time, of course), she’d [...]

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